Boot Camp

Announcing the 2017 Transformational Intensive for Extraordinary Facilitators.
It’s our third year!!
This year it’s in New Orleans!
7 days, 10 extraordinary teachers, and we are opening registration for just 12 attendees (Our first ticket has already sold) Every year we have sold out!!! RSVP now :

This is the greatest creative inspiration I have ever imagined It’s a culmination of my life’s work thus far. I have spent nine years now traveling the country learning and practicing these tools and now I want to share them with you.
So many of you have asked for the steps, for a training to be able to do what I do, well I’m going to offer you one better…. I’m going to offer you an intensive, a “Monique Boot Camp” if you will, with myself and some other extraordinary facilitators, to help you find out what’s in the way of you being able to offer your greatest gift to the world to your clients, workshop attendees, partners, every aspect of your life, YOU! You are the gift!!

Let’s start with the dates November 1-8, 2017

I have assembled a handful (believe me, they are a “handful”) of guest teachers. Some of the most incredible facilitators on the planet into one place;

This year’s lineup includes Reid Mihalko, Lawrence Lanoff, Brion E. & Karen Craig, Monique Darling, Peter Petersen, Shawn Roop, Eugene Hedlund, Ashley Manta, and Amy Eudis McBain

experts in the disciplines of :
International Reach
Authenticity and Vulnerability
Sacred Sexuality
Radical Self Acceptance
Personal Accountability
Orgasmic Touch
Personal Rapport
Fearless Relating
Practitioner Financial Stability (business savvy to make money doing what you love)

It will be limited to 12 participants, an intimate group, that will eat together, sleep together, learn, expand, and transform together in a gorgeous communal home.
I have crammed the juiciest, the most divine, the most potent things I have learned into these 7 days. This will push you. Wherever you are at in your practice, whether you are just getting started and could use a wider range of tools, or you have been facilitating for years and have reached a plateau, or you are going strong but in danger of settling into a comfort zone. This will invite you to new levels, to deeper depths. I am offering the steps that I took (concentrated), real world tools for practitioners who are ready to take their next step, fundamentals for advanced studies, including offering my top mistakes and the greatest gifts I got from them, so you won’t have to make them!

You will also get personal coaching follow up calls to integrate the unique concepts you take away from the experience.
Intrigued yet?

I call it a Transformational Intensive for Extraordinary Facilitators. It’s $3247 for the first 3 of you who join, it’s only $3997 after that. There is a payment plan that works like this. $1,500 down (nonrefundable), $1,500 by June, and the final $1,000 by Sep 1st. Whether you go with the payment plan or pay it all up front you will want to get your tickets soon because …

Beginning in January once a month every month there will be a phone call seminar with one of my co-facilitators. Each teacher is going to give their perspective on the three fundamental elements that this entire intensive is about.
Self Acceptance
Self Love
Self Accountability

How to do your own inner work on a consistent basis so that you are available to be the most impeccable conscientious present facilitator/practitioner you can be. Check in’s every morning, as I help you integrate the lessons from the day before, and introduce the new presenter and why I chose them to add to our adventure, how they shaped my life/practice.

This price includes a bed in a huge home in New Orleans.
Includes breakfast and lunch, (dinner is on your own.)
All the incredible night time activities.
A pre call from each of our presenters, and a post coaching call with me plus one other presenter on the team.
A Facebook group where you can share ideas, questions, and we can all follow up with each other as you bring forth your extraordinary Facilitator skills into the world.
and sooooooooo much more!

I specifically chose New Orleans this year for those of you who might want to come a day early and play in the city famous for it’s Halloween activities. If this is part of your plan you will want to get your place early because rooms tend to sell out during that time.

Day 1, Wed NOV 1,
We are going to start off slow this time. The property is available after 6 pm, we begin with Intro’s a Meet and Greet at 8. No actual instruction this day.

Day 2, Thurs NOV 2. … The Fundamentals (Monique and Peter)
This will be about the fundamentals of being an extraordinary facilitator from my point of view of running over 1,000 workshops. This session will include my top mistakes and top skills so you don’t have to make them. As well as an official Cuddle Party complete with commentary as I walk you through every step of what I am doing as I facilitate the event.
We will be joined by Peter Petersen as we offer Tips, Skills, & a frank discussion on what it takes to stay sane when the road IS home.
We will walk you through the logistics, pros and cons of the sexy nomad lifestyle. Sharing with raw, vulnerable authenticity (and a sprinkle of wit!) our own experiences of putting everything in storage and daring to truly live life “as a teaching.” Let our research and development of life on the road give you a pathway to more ease and grace, if you too feel called to share your gifts in many places and for extended periods of time.
tips such as How to:
Juggle relationships without having a “home base.”
Navigate clients that wish more ongoing work, when you won’t be back for another 6 months (Empowerment VS Enabling).
Get super clear on self-care requirements, and ask for you what you need ahead of time from your hosts/producers
Establish networking circles, create healthy win/wins with hosts/producers of your events in each city
And The big one…How to prioritize your time, delegate to others, take time off to sight see, yet create a sustainable financial system for ongoing classes, workshops and sessions.
A big focus is on FALLING IN LOVE WITH YOURSELF (exactly as you are) and how to trick your clients/workshop attendees into falling in love with themselves.

We will continue into the NIGHT with Brion and Karen Craig :
That evening we will be enjoy a very special lecture on how to have the conversation and create valid offerings as practitioners and facilitators around diversity, especially around race. We will be joined by Brion and Karen Craig pioneer’s and beautiful advocates on this subject. I am super excited to be learning new tools to be even more inclusive and leave people feeling seen, heard, and cherished.
They will also be offering tips, tricks, and skills on specifically how to integrate couples work into your offerings. Drawing upon their intensive experience of assisting couples in creating their DREAM relationships by working with them to achieve true Love, Sex and Intimacy in their lives.
Learn how to assist them in identifying and eliminating those issues that are sabotaging their current relationship. Learn how to identify and clear past hurts, limiting beliefs, emotional blockages and anything and everything else that is keeping one from finding the love they desire.

You can find out more about both of them at

Day 3, Fri NOV 3. Eugene Hedlund,

Eugene is a world traveler. He holds month long facilitator trainings, is the co-organizer of the US Tantra Festival, Travels and teaches around the world, so if you are dreaming big Eugene can help you be a Road Warrior of Tantra. You can also take these skills and use them in your own business if you are staying in one place or just moving around a little the same skill sets apply. His speciality is how to take your show on the road internationally if that is your direction.

Friday will conclude by Peter, Eugene and I leading everybody through a Devotional Puja that will give everyone an experiential real world experience of unconditional giving and receiving. In Tantra, holding a Puja is a way of honoring and adoring the divine that dwells within us all. The subtle sensual energies residing within our bodies are invoked, revered, and welcomed as honored guests at this feast of love. How would you like to step into a world of acceptance, of sensation, a world where ALL of you is utterly and radically welcomed?
How would it feel to be completely held, and have your deepest humanity plus your greatest divinity given a space to dance and to merge in sweet union?
This will be a Sacred Gathering inviting you to show up in your greatest vulnerability, willing to see and be seen as you are in this moment, open to the beautiful reflections that you can offer one another. We will get to practice and play in the areas of acceptance, adoration, unconditional love (first of yourself, which then showers on all in your field), and sensuality/embodiment, (Giving yourself full permission of Heaven on earth in THIS moment, in THIS body)
This ceremony opens our hearts in a way that allows you to see the inner beauty and the divine shining within everyone. You will be instructed in performing an ancient ritual which is simple in form yet very powerful in practice. As you accept the offerings and adoration, you in turn connect with unconditional love and reflect that adoration back with your presence. It is through the practice of unconditional loving that we find that any emptiness or longing we feel within us can be filled with a simple act of giving.
In this unique experience you will find many opportunities to connect and enjoy other people’s company throughout the night, but our intention is for you to walk away with a much deeper love for YOURSELF!

Day 4 Sat NOV 4 I will be joined by Shawn Roop. (ONE ON ONE SESSIONS: Establishing Rapport)
Shawn will offer tools to help people wade through the challenges of life, love and spiritual wholeness. You will gain some understanding of how to work with ANY individuals and their issues. You will learn how to design unique sessions that offer clients a personal journey that evokes change, awakens the spirit and opens the heart. Learn ways to support life change, relationships transitions, and how to bring a person into pure purpose. Shawn will share the common
Explore ideas to impact the societal level with your gifts and wisdom. Bring healthy power, positive sexual vision and empowered change to this world through sessions. Gain the skills to create ideal, repeat, high dollar clientele. How to not facilitate/practice as a wounded healer. Redefine “safety” Learn how to live life on your own terms so you can offer those tools to your clients as well.

TONIGHT you get the night off to go explore New Orleans!!!

Day 5 Sun NOV 5 Shawn continues with his Tantric Wisdom in his one of a kind way he calls “Dangerous Tantra”
Learn how Tantra is a very awakening wisdom that brings the thing most people fear, the unknown, to the surface and use it to bring about freedom and change. For centuries, Tantra has been seen as a path of the rebel. It teaches clearly that there is no road map to follow other than your own and on your terms.
Crack free and get real with your life, fears and emotional to the place of liberation. The need to stay safe and comfortable may be the very pattern that is holding you back. There is a grand adventure awaiting you, are you courageous enough to step into it as you drop your old stories and identities?
Do you want the happily ever after fairytail? This class is NOT for you!
Are you looking forward to creating more safety in your life? This WILL NOT be offered.
Do you want to have it all just work out? This is NOT going to be your cup of tea.
Where I am going in this class is to the heart of the issue I keep seeing. This is to help people break free from judgments, comparisons and perfection. This is a look at why you may be lacking the courage to step into your life. It’s going to be gritty, uncomfortable and eye opening for many. Nevertheless, it just might cut you free from the tired story you are holding on too.
Are you tried of fleeting happiness?
Are you frustrated with unsustainable success?
Do you see the drama you are creating and can’t seem to stop it?
IS it time to stop the fight and welcome in something new?
Then this is so for you!!
Why is it called Dangerous Tantra?
Because your adventure awaits, to live life that is known. It’s about breaking the patterns that limit your completely amazing life. It takes change and courage. It’s dangerous to your old patterns and stories, to the very things that may be keeping you held back. Isn’t time?
Find out more about Shawn Roop at

That afternoon/evening IT’s ALL ABOUT THE BODY. Learn how to incorporate hands on demonstrations into your educational offerings! I will be joined by Ashley Manta and Amy Eudis McBain. Amy and Ashley will talk about consent, why it’s crucial to an ethical practice, and demonstrate tools you can teach your clients in-session that help them learn how to both listen to and voice their authentic needs and desires. Ashley shares her decade of experience creating trauma informed safe spaces and brings that knowledge to incorporating live demo techniques in a way that prioritizes the consent and comfort of all attendees. She also offers practical considerations like safer sex considerations and set up and clean up. Finally she will demonstrate her hands on techniques for the group so that they can observe them in real time and ask questions. We will concentrate on the top requested techniques you can share with your clients: prostate massage, G-spot work and female ejaculation, and Sacred Spot (Yoni/pussy trauma release points). Offering these services isn’t just about the specific massage strokes. It’s also about how you demonstrate your ability to honor your clients, respect their edges, and hold space for their growth. When you can do that, prostate and G-spot work can open up amazing new possibilities for your client’s pleasure, health, and well-being. This half of the day will primarily be devoted to giving you skills to support your clients’ consent and walking you through what a session could look like including live demos. (Lawrence Lanoff will be offering his body to be worked on, as well as Amy and I will be working on each other) So you will feel more confident if you are desiring to add more hands on work to your practice.
Amy’s primary focus is a process she created called Intentional Orgasm which can be experienced one on one, as a couple, or in a group setting. It is a process that helps you release all of the negative energy, blocks and programming that you have taken on throughout your life and the fear/guilt/shame around sex through a deep spiritual dive which includes guided meditation, chakra opening, aura cleanse, cap removal and a powerful DNA activation. This results in a re-birthing of the powerful potent authentic soul energy that you were born with and an opening and activation of your natural energy channels. She then takes all of that energy and activates it in your body through a special three position, sensual tantric massage utilizing elemental energy touch to activate all of your senses and balance your inherent energy channels, which culminates in being brought to orgasm manually so that you can then super charge the intention of what you want to manifest in your life with the potent creative power of your own orgasmic energy.
find out more about Amy at

Day 6 Sun NOV 6. This day will be all about Lawrence Lanoff . (CUTTING THROUGH THE BS AND ENERGETIC EXPLORATION)
Today is dedicated to teaching people how to break through belief systems, first their own so they can see more clearly past their own filters and then how to help your clients and workshop attendees break through theirs. Learn to see life using pleasure as your gauge, how the opposite of pleasure is just “more pleasure” the opposite of money is “more money” the opposite of open is “more open” How to offer those concepts to anyone coming to learn from you. Then we dive into the delicious land of Energetics… many of us consider ourselves empaths, what if you didn’t have to worry about “taking on” your clients or attendees energy stuff. What if you could just use all forms of energy as “fuel”? Lawrence will show you how energy is not good or bad, it’s just energy, he will teach you his signature move of “devouring” and how to use energy most effectively and offer your clients ways to uplevel their life. Using the energetic realm for infinite possibilities.

Lawrence will share about the 5 games we are all playing in life……….
Look – we upgrade everything else… computers,
phones, operating systems…
But not our thinking – .
Why? Because we literally can’t upgrade something
that we don’t even see as a problem.
Have you ever seen somebody with an old piece of technology
struggling through life?
They certainly don’t NEED to… but they don’t know
what they don’t know.
Our THINKING is exactly like that. It’s based
on old technology – that has to be upgraded
if we are ever to see true change in the world.
We’re passionate about true change that starts from INSIDE.
Have you had enough of feeling stuck in your life,
or feeling a lack of laser focused inner confidence,
or you just want to feel TRUE inner peace – the kind of thing that wells up from deep inside?
Not because inner peace is a goal. But because you recognize
true peace comes from UPGRADING your mind – which underlies
every area of your life…
This is truly an entirely NEW way of thinking.
It’s a TOTAL life upgrade.

Day 7 Mon NOV 7, I will be joined by Reid Mihalko for The Business Side of Sex Ed with Reid Mihalko
Being a sex educator and making a decent living can seem at odds. Too many amazing sex-positive professionals are on the verge of financial and emotional collapse from the worry, burnout, and frustration of trying to make ends meet while sharing their calling with the world. What if you could change lives AND get paid decently for it? What if there were ways to reach more people with your message using less effort? And what if there was a learnable approach to the business of being a sex educator that would augment your strengths, make you more prolific with less stress, inspire your fans and clients, free up more time for you to relax and recharge, and help you make money without feeling “salesy,” pushy, or creepy?
The good news: This is all possible, and you can do it, too! Join sex, relationship and business geek, Reid Mihalko for an informative and humorous day where he’ll show you 3 crushing mistakes most sex educators are making that leave them frustrated, burnout and broke, and the successful business models and practices that will help you turn your calling into a life-long, successful career.
Reid and I will bring everything together from the rest of the intensive, answering lingering questions, helping you integrate all you have experienced and learned.

We will close ot this incredible week of extraordinariness with an Energetic Sex Play Party (A treat in and of itself, this is my and Reid’s most popular workshop, that we will use here to help integrate everything you have learned this week.

All of this for $3997
$3247 (save $750) if you are one of the first 3 to pay it all at once
or three payments of $1,500 down (Non refundable), $1,500, and the remaining $1,000 by September 15

includes breakfast and lunch, bed, you are on your own for dinner. In the morning will offer a summary/how each teachers teachings are woven in, check in/introduction, to let people know why I have invited each of these teachers to be there.

Sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko of, teaches adults how to create more self-esteem, self-confidence and greater health and satisfaction in and out of the bedroom. Using humor, insight and solid information, Reid appeals to audiences of all orientations, backgrounds, ages and identities. He’s one of the only male sex and relationship experts touring the country today who can speak pragmatically to nearly all areas of sexual self-expression, intimacy, dating and relating. Reid’s mission is to give men and women new tools to transform their love lives into fulfilling, satisfying, and sustainable expressions of self. Reid is a sought after speaker who lectures at colleges across the country and has presented and keynoted at dozens of conferences on relationships and sexuality. The workshops he’s designed continue to be taught all over the world and have been attended by over 40,000 people. Reid has appeared on CBS’ The Doctors, Oprah’s Our America with Lisa Lingon OWN, Bravo’s Miss Advised, the Emmy award-winning talk show Montel, Fox News, VH1, Showtime’s Penn & Teller’s Bulls**t!, on NPR, Sirius’ Maxim Radio and Cosmo Radio, and in Marie Claire, GQ, Details, Seventeen, People, Newsweek, The Washington Post andThe National Enquirer, as well as media across the globe in twenty-seven countries and at least fourteen languages. For Reid, the skills it takes to make relationships healthy and turn mediocre sex into great sex are learnable by everyone. The question is: Do you have the courage to be the change you want to see in the bedroom?

Lawrence Lanoff, Sedona, AZ is one of the most fascinating people on the teaching landscape. Truly a renaissance man, Lawrence is a film director, photographer, author and a deeply enlightened healer and teacher. He calls himself a “rubber meets the road kinda guy” as he applies this practical essence to his artistic and spiritual skills over a 20 year span, to an amazing array of disciplines, starting with a couple of dream jobs – the directing of movies and as a photographer for Playboy Magazine.
Over the past several years, Lawrence has been in a process of refining his radical teachings, leading people into a new kind of freedom, literally deprogramming them from the sleep imposed by cults and religions. What is slowly evolving is a revolutionary new theory of consciousness that incorporates evolution, symbolism, metaphor, neurobiology, and their relationship to healing, spiritual evolution, and neuro-economics — the neural pathways that influences our deepest feelings about self worth and money, and, of course, sex and relationships.

Monique Darling, Author of ‘Beyond Cuddle Party’ and workshop facilitator extraordinaire has led over 1500 workshops in the past 8 years. She is the founder of Juicy Enlightenment an organization dedicated to empowering people who are questioning the assumptions of how their life should be and to offering tools for self expression that create trust, inner knowing and wisdom to enjoy the life they have. Monique has taught at colleges across the US including Yale. She has been featured on TLC and The Dr’s as well as various radio shows, podcasts and magazines across the globe. She specializes in helping others reclaim their power and natural sensuality by transmuting fear and repression into courage, self-love and freedom. Her primary purpose is helping folks bring out their vulnerability, energetic embodiment and fearless relating. Learn more about Monique by going or track her whereabouts

Peter Petersen Peter Petersen has been teaching qigong for 14 years and has been a certified massage therapist for the last 10. Peter has been teaching in health clubs, hospitals, retirement villas, and several different wellness/spa resorts in Mexico and the United States, such as Rancho La Puerta, Mayacamas Ranch, and Present Moment Retreat. Peter is also a personal wellness coach. This Qigong practice helps people ground themselves into their “now” to increase their present moment awareness of their behaviors, and find simple solutions to problematic habits such as: eating, moving, negative thinking, and sleeping. The result of this tool box of healthy information is that clients become their own health advocate and regain a sense of stability, peace, and well-being into their everyday lives.

Shawn Roop has been a student and teacher of life wisdom since 1989. He is the founder of Tantra Quest, author of Pathway to Love: 28 days to self love and holds a Bachelors in Sociology, is a Master Practitioner of NLP, a Certified Tantric Therapist and a Certified Master Tantric Counselor. Featured in numerous media appearances on NBC, Fox, E!, The Travel Channel, USA and Playboy Radio, as well as other radio and print articles, Shawn is proud to share his work with the intention to support healthy embodiment, personal empowerment and spiritual growth.
Brion and Karen Craig are life and relationship coaches who own and operate Next Chapter Relationship Coaching in Atlanta, GA. They bring their years of experience to help couples and singles transition to the next phase and chapter in their lives, such as moving from being married to divorced or moving from single life to a relationship. They coach both singles and couples on topics such as life purpose, identifying true needs and wants, and guide them in creating strategies and a concrete plan to create and live their dream life!

Eugene Hedlund, Founder of the School of Tribal Tantra, has been teaching these transformational arts around the globe since 2008.

He founded The School of Tribal Tantra as a gateway to accelerate those who are ready to step into their mastery. Eugene’s core passion is to use these tools and gifts in an integrated way which best serves each student.

More info videos about Tribal Tantra and Eugene Hedlund at:

“I am not here to offer anything new, but to help us remember something old, something true, something that has always been…that you are complete. You are enough. You are worthy of loving and being loved.” ~ Eugene

Brion and Karen also own Love, Sex and Intimacy Retreats, which hosts intimate retreats and workshops around the world that focus on themes such as The Art of Sacred Sexuality, Couples Intimacy, and Finding the Love of Your Life. To learn more about their retreats
In addition, they also run Brion and Karen Boudoir Photography in Atlanta where they create stunning sensual images of women and couples. Brion and Karen are also the developers of the Energy Body Synergy Technique, an energy healing technique that helps users to release blockages that have prevented them from achieving abundance in every area of their lives.

Ashley Manta likes to talk about sex—a lot. It’s not taboo for her. You know what’s else isn’t taboo for her? Cannabis. In fact, this bubbly buxom blonde has become a sought-after authority on mindfully combining sex and cannabis as part of her CannaSexual™ brand. As a professional sex educator, writer, coach, and facilitator, Ashley helps people navigate these topics to make sure they are interacting, loving, and feeling their best in and out of the bedroom. By creating a safe space for people to feel and be heard, Ashley works on softening the restrictive boundaries holding clients back from being their best selves—and doing so in a way that makes people incredibly comfortable. Ashley writes a weekly educational column on sex and cannabis for renowned online cannabis resource, recently she began writing a weekly blog for Dope Magazine’s Hump Day High about her life as the CannaSexual™

Amy Eudis Mcbain, Amy is a free spirited Bohemian, who has a passion for life and wants others to find their Bliss. She has been called a Sexual Shaman. She found her true authentic self through sexual exploration and has helped many others do the same. She believes we can change the entire world if we harness the energy of intentional orgasm and that we can create a tipping point of consciousness that will uplift the entire planet. She has created a business featuring Intentional Orgasm with the goal of bringing the power and peace of meditation to the masses, and helping others to awaken to their true potential through the exploration and intent of the most powerful energetic experience one can have, orgasm. She has created a process that helps you release all of the negative energy, blocks and programming that you have taken on throughout your life and the fear/guilt/shame around sex through a deep spiritual dive which includes guided meditation, chakra opening, aura cleanse, cap removal and a powerful DNA activation. This results in a re-birthing of the powerful potent authentic soul energy that you were born with and an opening and activation of your natural energy channels. She then takes all of that energy and activates it in your body through a special three position, sensual tantric massage utilizing elemental energy touch to activate all of your senses and balance your inherent energy channels, which culminates in being brought to orgasm manually so that you can then super charge the intention of what you want to manifest in your life with the potent creative power of your own orgasmic energy. We all came from an orgasm – in fact the big bang was the world’s first orgasm, resulting in the creation of all matter, so when you connect your spiritual nature with your orgasmic center, you get to tap back into the universal energy field and anything is possible. This is a combination of ancient spiritual practices combined with forward thinking sex positive concepts. It changes lives in just one session! Her primary focus is a process she created called Intentional Orgasm which can be experienced one on one, as a couple, or in a group setting.; phone: 303-204-7309;; Facebook: Intentional Orgasm; Meet-Up: Temple of Ishtar.